The Interested Challenge to find out how to win friends?
Today I just read chapter 1 “Do This And You’ll Be Welcome Anywhere” of book “How to Win Friends & Influence People” by Dale Carnegie.
The writer asked a question at the beginning of his book’s chapter that
Why read this book to find out how to win friends? Why not study the technique of the greatest winner of friends the world has ever known?
I still remember that there is a poem which I read in college grade 11. The famous poem “Hollow men” by T S Eliot in which he just try to realize us that we are no longer a human being.
There are lots of people in our surroundings who come and meet us but still we are sinking somewhere in between “me” and “I”. We have to do something for others and make them comfortable by just listening to them. Nowadays, we do not care about our relations and blood bounding. The things which we need to realize is that we have to listen views and feel about others. I learnt lots of things about nature and our strong and weak bounding in relationships with our love ones or others. You can fly beyond the sky if you realize the secret behind it. I am really amazed to read some ethical values not by words but I feel. You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you. People are not interested in you. They are interested in themselves.
“You think you are successful?” Read it again and think about it…
The thing which I realized we just have to listen others instead of telling about ourselves. I apply the same thing in my own life and there occur many impressive outcomes. Many friends and fellows just want to share their life’s problems and their perceptions about life but there are no one who can listen. One of my fellows share her life problems with me and after that I realized we are nothing without our blood relations specially our parents. There are many stories or life problems of my fellows who just try to go somewhere alone and think where is leading their lives. Sorry, I can’t explain in my words what I feel and what they feel. I just want to tell you spread the happiness. No matter what you are but the thing is that what you are capable of doing. You are not living the only person in this world. Some friends are closer with me now, that’s what I perceive. The technique for how to win friends and fellows is you just have to listen them carefully and spread happiness among themselves. It’s also the key to success.
